"She desired to cleave to them and to be shaped as one of them, and was loath to depart from them. But the Holy One, blessed be He, removed her from them and made her go below...
Then He...gave him [Adam] a partner, as soon as Lilith saw Eve clinging to his side she was reminded by his form of the supernal beauty, she flew up from thence and tried as before to attach herself to the 'little faces' [Cherubim]. The supernal guardians of the gates, however, did not permit her. The Holy One, blessed be He, chide her and cast her into the depths of the sea."
So Lilith, the "Queen of Demons" is capable of feeling affection and loss. She left Eden because her mate insisted he was superior to her. She found a new home and attempted to join a community. Ultimately she is rejected in a very serious way. Sometime after Adam and Eve are expelled, God brings Lilith out from the depths of the sea:
"...and gave her power over all those children, the ''little faces' of the sons of men, who are liable to punishment for the sins of their fathers. She then wandered up and down the world. She approached the gates of the terrestrial paradise [Eden], where she saw the Cherubim, the guardians of the gates of Paradise, and sat down near the flashing sword, to which she was akin in origin. When she saw the flashing sword revolving, indicating that man had sinned, she fled and wandered about the world...finding children liable to punishment."
Lilith's fate has strong parallels with the legend of La Llorona, the roving specter explored in a previous entry concerning Latin America. La Llorona was once Maria, a Mexican divorcee who drowned her children to punish her adulterous husband. Maria was turned away from the gates of Heaven and instructed to find her children, which is why she roams the world, finding children who resemble her own.
Lilith's story does not end after she leaves Eden. She does not deteriorate and become the Queen of Demons. Like Moses, Elijah or Jesus himself, her story is told in layers. In Midrash, the Talmud and the Dead Sea Scrolls we have additional chapters in the evolution of a turbulent character. But unlike her Biblical contemporaries Lilith's name occurs in older parts of the world, linking her with past lives and an older class of gods and heroes.