No blog about Lilith is ever complete without mentioning the character played by Bebe Neuwirth on Cheers and Frasier. A Jewish research scientist and Jungian psychiatrist, Lilith Sternin was married and subsequently divorced to Kelsey Grammar's Frasier Crane. She is often characterized by her "corpse-like" complexion and constant allusions to vampires, demons and witches. At one point she is directly linked to her namesake, the "demon goddess," by a potential boyfriend. Lilith, in her uniquely sharp monotones replies, "I make her look like a vacillating cream puff." This is a typical example of Lilith's dry, wordy, and emasculating sense of humor. Lilith has strange effects on the world around her. According to self-proclaimed psychic Daphne Moon, she creates disturbances in the space-time continuum and represents a supernaturally malign force. Frasier once portends her arrival by dreaming of an "ice volcano." Contrary to Dr. Crane's over zealous, scientific nature, the writers go out of their to demonstrate the fact that there is something cosmically twisted about Lilith.
Concerning her relationship with the famous spin-off's title character, Lilith meets Fraiser early on as a guest star on Cheers. They quickly become rivals and Fraiser dubs her the "ice cube in heels." Under the surface she represents the sum of his desires. Diane Chambers, Fraiser's ex-fiance and Cheers barmaid helps Lilith play on this by unbinding her seductive long hair. Freed from constraints she becomes an unparalleled sex symbol, a theme revisited for the rest of the character's long life on NBC. While she often strives to become Fraiser's equal they are written as combustible opposites. Lilith, interestingly enough, is Jungian, while Fraiser is Freudian. There's a subtle theme in this affiliation that ties Lilith to her namesake, especially when coupled with her Jewish faith. This difference also supplies them with a great deal of sexual electricity, as noted by Fraiser several times. The two of them become married after a forced engagement and finally divorce between the Cheers finale and Frasier premier episodes. According to Lilith, she felt there was more to her identity as a woman than powerful sex.
A strange brew of repression and sexual energy Lilith Sternin could be described as someone who plays both sides of her female identity. Bebe Neuwirth describes her as shy, she relates Lilith as, "very innocent, very sweet, very naïve. She's socially inept. She has no idea how to react with other people. She's shy and uncomfortable with people. She's a scientist, she's very analytical, she's very honest." But she can also be seen in your Netflix Queue dancing provocatively for Sam Malone. For my money, Lilith Sternin is someone who truly enjoys being a woman. And she's damn good at it.
